So I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from divorced and separated readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on after divorce… “It wasn’t supposed to be like this after divorce.” “We were supposed to grow old together…not get divorced.” “I was supposed to retire in a few years, […]
Stressing about the holidays? Here’s what you need to know.
Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday. But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from […]
Self-Esteem Suck after Divorce?
Self-esteem is most likely nonexistent after divorce. One of the many things we struggle with as we learn to recover from divorce is learning how to rebuild our self-esteem. As a result, it’s easy to understand why this is such an issue. When your relationship ends, you may feel rejected. You may feel unworthy. You […]
How the hell can I ever trust anybody again?
Hello, Friends! I want to talk to you about something you may have lost during your divorce. Your ability to trust again, especially if you were betrayed by your spouse. The reason we struggle with trust is because we feel like we’ve been betrayed. It’s a crappy weight to have on your shoulders. Similar to […]