Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday. But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are…
Self-esteem is most likely nonexistent after divorce. One of the many things we struggle with as we learn to recover from divorce is learning how to rebuild our self-esteem. As a result, it’s easy to understand why this is such an issue. When your relationship ends, you may feel rejected.…
Hello, Friends! As you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes you way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something that…
Hello, Friends! I want to talk to you about something you may have lost during your divorce. Your ability to trust again, especially if you were betrayed by your spouse. The reason we struggle with trust is because we feel like we’ve been betrayed. It’s a crappy weight to have…
Hello Friends! So today, let’s talk about one of the biggest struggles that nobody wants to talk about during divorce. GRIEF. Grief is a tricky thing. When we are conditioned to expect it, as is the case during the death of a loved one know that we must be patient,…
Hi There! So, last email, we talked about how we actually screw ourselves over when we try to get all our crap done at one time. Check out that story here if you haven’t yet! Let’s pull that thread a little bit, because it’s a conflicting concept when you’re recovery…
Hello, Friends! I hope you’re spring is going well and that the change of seasons isn’t kicking your ass like it is mine. It’s funny whenever allergies kick my ass. I find myself thinking, “hey, when is allergy season going to hurry the hell up so I can feel better?…
Hello, Friends! We’ve definitely covered a lot over the past couple of months, haven’t we? We’ve dug into why New Year’s resolutions are stupid. We discovered the more practical way to make your goals manageable. And in a perfect world, you would easily be able to break your goals into…
Hello Friends! Last time, we talked about how starting small is the most sustainable way to reach any type of New Year’s resolution—or to make any type of change during your divorce and recovery. If you haven’t read that blog post yet, you’ll definitely want to and you can find…
Hello, Friends! Recently, we talked about why New Year Resolutions can be utter bullshit. But that is not an excuse to just throw your hands up, give up, call it a day, and resign yourself to the fact that you’ll never fully recover from divorce. Or become financially secure. Or…