So I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from divorced and separated readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on after divorce… “It wasn’t supposed to be like this after divorce.” “We were supposed to grow old together…not get divorced.” “I was supposed to retire in a few years, […]
Stressing about the holidays? Here’s what you need to know.
Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday. But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from […]
What to do when your divorce grief is killing you.
Hello Friends! So today, let’s talk about one of the biggest struggles that nobody wants to talk about during divorce. GRIEF. Grief is a tricky thing. When we are conditioned to expect it, as is the case during the death of a loved one know that we must be patient, go through the stages, and […]
What to do when you can’t do it yourself.
Hello, Friends! We’ve definitely covered a lot over the past couple of months, haven’t we? We’ve dug into why New Year’s resolutions are stupid. We discovered the more practical way to make your goals manageable. And in a perfect world, you would easily be able to break your goals into smaller bits, give yourself timelines […]