One of the many things we struggle with as we learn to recover from divorce is learning how to rebuild our self-esteem. It’s easy to understand why this is such an issue. When your marriage ends, you may feel rejected. You may feel unworthy. You sit crying on your coach,…
Can’t get your ex out of your mind? Help is here!
As we continue to rock the hell out of Learning How to Let Go, something that many of you shared that you have trouble with is getting your ex out of your head. This sort of stuff can creep up on your when you least expect it, especially when the…
How to stop making this #1 happiness mistake
A while ago, I was laid off from a 9-5 job. Mind you, it was not a job that I particularly loved, and I remember feeling a bit bored and stifled with its day-in and day-out responsibilities that were neither intellectually nor emotionally/spiritually sustaining. Nevertheless, I started to panic, because…
How awesome will your 2017 be?
Happy New Year, Friends! It certainly has been an eventful year–this amazing community continues to grow as we learn how to recover, heal, and empower ourselves to take our lives back. As you can attest, the journey is never easy. And there are days where all you want to do…
Are You Tired of Feeling Lost?
Hello Everyone! As we continue our Summer of Feeling Better, there’s another issue that we all feel as we try to nove on from divorce. Feeling lost. There are many times in our lives where we may feel like we are not sure of our paths but it gets even…
How to Abandon Your Divorce Loneliness
Happy Thursday, Friends! It’s been a few weeks and I’ve missed you! This week, let’s take a look at something that can hit us when we least expect it. Loneliness. Loneliness sucks. It’s a horrible feeling to think you have nobody in the world to turn to as you are…
How to Stop Being Bitter after Your Divorce
Happy Friday, Friends! Here’s hoping that your summer is continuing to be full of sunshine, warm weather, lazy days enjoying cold beverages, and of course, lots of ice cream. When we are experiencing or recovering from divorce, remembering to find joy in everyday things during any season can be difficult.…
How Divorce can be the Best Thing to Ever Happen to You
Happy Wednesday, Everyone! Although we are moving right along in our Move the Hell On series, I wanted to take this week to pause for a second and remind you how freakin’ awesome you are. This is you. Every damn day. Don’t forget it. Image via Jackie…
How to Move the Hell on with Your Life. Part 1
Happy Saint Patrick’s Day, Everyone! Last week, we discussed why you feel like crap during divorce and I promised this week that Surviving Your Split will start digging into that issue so that you can move the hell on with your life. I must warn you–learning how to move on with…
This is Why Your Divorce Sucks Right Now
Hello, Friends! Now that the weather on the East Coast (at least in my neck of the woods) has finally started to behave, I’m looking around and seeing everybody in a good mood, without a care in the world. Hmmmmmm. But I remember a few years back when I was trying…