Hello Friends! So today, let’s talk about one of the biggest struggles that nobody wants to talk about during divorce. GRIEF. Grief is a tricky thing. When we are conditioned to expect it, as is the case during the death of a loved one know that we must be patient,…
Want to know what’s not helping your divorce recovery?
Hello, Friends! I hope you’re spring is going well and that the change of seasons isn’t kicking your ass like it is mine. It’s funny whenever allergies kick my ass. I find myself thinking, “hey, when is allergy season going to hurry the hell up so I can feel better?…
What to do when you can’t do it yourself.
Hello, Friends! We’ve definitely covered a lot over the past couple of months, haven’t we? We’ve dug into why New Year’s resolutions are stupid. We discovered the more practical way to make your goals manageable. And in a perfect world, you would easily be able to break your goals into…
Want divorce goals you can actually reach? Read this.
Hello Friends! Last time, we talked about how starting small is the most sustainable way to reach any type of New Year’s resolution—or to make any type of change during your divorce and recovery. If you haven’t read that blog post yet, you’ll definitely want to and you can find…
Ready to throw in the towel? Do this one easy thing instead.
Hello, Friends! Recently, we talked about why New Year Resolutions can be utter bullshit. But that is not an excuse to just throw your hands up, give up, call it a day, and resign yourself to the fact that you’ll never fully recover from divorce. Or become financially secure. Or…
This is why New Year Resolutions are Bullsh*t
Hello, Friends! Well, we’re in the middle of the first month of the New Year, and by this time, most people’s New Year Resolutions are already out the window. You may have vowed to yourself throughout December that you were going to get up early every morning to hit the…
Want your confidence back in 2018?
Happy New Year, Friends! Now that the holidays are over, we usually tend to feel one of two ways. Some of us are super-excited and motivated to start the year off right. Then there’s the rest of us. You know–those of us who are like, “Ughhhhhhh January is so depressing!…
Wanna know how to take better care of yourself?
Fall is in the air, and you know what that means… No, I am not going to say Pumpkin Spice lattes. Or pumpkin spice deodorant. Or pumpkin spice bologna. That’s not how we roll here. Just say no. Image via WordPress. Here at Surviving Your Split, the…
Why “Gray Divorce” Is So Common And How You Can Survive It
Hello, Friends! This post comes from our friend Sally Perkins. Ms. Perkins is a professional freelance writer with many years experience across many different areas. She made the move to freelancing from a stressful corporate job and loves the work-life balance it offers her. When not at work, Sally enjoys…
Spouse leave you without warning? Here’s how to deal.
Hello, Friends! The summer has ended in this neck of the woods, and it’s got me thinking about something many of you amazing readers struggle with during divorce. The case of spouse abandonment, aka when you thought the marriage was fine and you were looking forward to your future together,…