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By Martha B

3 Ways to Romance Yourself If You’re Divorced

Hi there, and welcome to the final day of the Love Yourself challenge! 

I’ve been receiving so many kick-ass responses from you all and I’m so excited you’re rockin’ these challenges. 

And if you haven’t sent me your responses yet, there’s still time! I can’t wait to get you into the drawing for the exclusive prize. 

So, let’s get to the really fun challenge today. 

Romance the living hell out of yourself. 


As women, we are conditioned to take care of others and never put ourselves first, but that silliness stops today. In the spirit of love that Valentine’s Day is supposed to be about, I’d encourage you this weekend to actually romance yourself. 

That can look however you want it to. 

It can be soaking in a hot bubble bath with the door closed so nobody can bug you. 

It can be ordering some delicious take-out and watching your favorite show on Netflix (um, Bridgerton or Emily in Paris, anyone?) 

It can be finally ordering that super-soft robe you’ve had your eye on but have felt guilty about buying. 

Here are two of my favorite places for spoiling the hell out of myself!

https://www.parachutehome.com 

https://www.the-citizenry.com 

And if you’re looking for more ways to romance yourself, here is my go-to place for ideas:

https://www.mydomaine.com/how-to-pamper-yourself 

Romancing yourself after divorce has infinite benefits. The most important one is that doing so repeatedly instills an internal sense of self-worth in you, teaching you that you don’t need an external source–not your family’s approval, not a man, nothing–to feel good. For years our society has been brainwashing us into believing that the only way we are valid is if we have a husband. But when we put ourselves first, and embrace the worth we have for just being, we take our power back. 

And taking your power back is the greatest act of love of all. 

Now it’s your turn!

Hit “reply” to this email and let me know how you’ll be romancing yourself. Remember—readers who complete all three challenges and let me know will be entered into a contest to win an awesome prize. 

And if you’re really looking for a way to feel great, I’d invite you to think about us working together. 

As a divorce recovery coach for professional women, I will help you overcome your divorce loneliness and break free from the patterns that keep you stuck. Together, you will learn how to feel more fulfilled, have more fun, and live fearlessly. 

If that resonates with you–whispers to you in even the faintest way, I would invite you to book a free discovery call with me at the link below: 

BOOK MY FREE DISCOVERY CALL!!!

I wish you your best Valentine’s Day yet. And know that you are loved. 

XO,
Martha

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